Psychological problems of children and their solutions ?
بچوں کے نفسیاتی مسائل اور ان کا حل
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This video is in Urdu, for those who do not know Urdu, What is said in this video has been translated into English

A child is bringing a pot of curry for guests . You are sitting with the guests and the child is bringing a pot of curry . Suddenly the pot dropped . Now what would be the reaction you do not take care ? You do not have manners ,Son . What made you hasten so much ? So we have insulted him in front of all the guests . As you went on scolding him , Would the curry recollect and become all right ? Would the pot get fixed and would the curry go inside the pot and return to the hands of the child ? No none of this will occur . What was to happen, has happened but the way you treated the child was quite discouraging. No child breaks anything deliberately. It my be lack of attention. There is another way to reform it . We should not scold children in front of others . Remove this from your dictionary. Do not scold in front of others. He feels disgraced even in front of his siblings. If you scold your younger children in front of your elder ones or scold your elder children in front of your younger children they will receive negative upbringing in this way. Train in front of others . But every training does not consist of scolding. May our elders understand these issues ! A lot of family issues will be resolved. If elders act tactfully. Our elders mostly lack wise strategy. They are too emotional and have aggressive dispositions. A child is a child. He being brought up and is growing right now. He will make slips and other errors. They are young children who do not take that much interest in the household chores. When they grow up, they start realizing and take interest. The other thing is "Do not be frustrated." Never get frustrated with the training and reformation of children. There will be some moment which will bring the turning point.